Life Without Limits

I really liked this book because it told of how Nick Vujicic learned to live without limbs, and the struggles he overcame; and sometimes still struggles with. When he was born his mother didn’t want to touch him or hold him when she found out he didn’t have any limbs. He was bullied constantly but he has used his disability to change people’s lives. I liked his personal narratives about how he has travelled around the world telling people his story. He talked about how to live a life without limits and provided a personal action plan. If you have the desire and the passion to do something, and it’s within God’s will you will achieve it. To live without limits you need….

1.      A powerful sense of purpose.

2.      Hope so strong it can’t be destroyed.

3.      Faith in God and the infinite possibilities.

4.      Love and self-acceptance.

5.      Attitude with altitude.

6.      A courageous spirit.

7.      Willingness to change.

8.       A trusting heart.

9.       Hunger for opportunities.

10.   The ability to access risks and to laugh at life.

11.   A mission to serve others first. 

       In life you will hit hard times. You will fall down and feel like it’s not worth getting back up. Life isn’t easy but when we overcome challenges we become stronger and more grateful for opportunities. What’s really important are the lives you touch along the way and how to finish the journey. No matter how grim life may look you can rise above it. To wish for change will change nothing. You have to take action right now. The challenges in life often show us who we are meant to be. Don’t put your life on hold so you can dwell on past hurts. Look for ways to move forward. Maybe there is a better opportunity down the road. Stay focused on your dreams. Do whatever it takes to change your circumstances and go after what you desire. Fill your life with adventure, love, and happiness. There is no reason to stew over a wish that doesn’t happen right away. Just be open-minded to the fact that God may have a different path for you. Don’t be discouraged if you can’t see the way on your own. There are many ways to reach a goal. God helps those who help themselves. It’s up to you to keep striving to the highest purpose. Keep moving ahead because action creates momentum which can crate unanticipated opportunities. You should think you are a stick in the world you pot of stew. You can stir it up.

       When you start to have trust in your talents, knowledge, love you will begin the journey to self-acceptance. When you are unwilling to accept yourself you are less willing to accept others which can lead to isolation and loneliness. When you judge yourself too harshly you put too much pressure on you and become more judgmental. Loving and accepting yourself will open the door to a greater sense of peace and fulfillment. Instead of dwelling on imperfections focus on the contributions you can make. You can define your own version of perfection. We each have some gift, talent, skill, craft that gives us pleasure that often leads to the path of happiness. When you finally find your purpose passion will follow. You will live to pursue it. If you feel your spirits tumbling go to the mirror and look at yourself until you can find a characteristic you love about yourself. It doesn’t have to be physical. Dwell on it for a while, be grateful, and know that your beauty and value comes from the unique person you are.
         Life without meaning has no hope. Life without hope has no meaning. Hope is where dreams begin. It has a voice of purpose, it speaks to you and reassures that it happens to you and doesn’t live within you. You can’t control what happens to you but you can control the response. Trust in Him, keep hope in you, and when faced with the worst do whatever you can to prepare for the best. God know how much you can take. People are like stained glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is but but when the darkness comes their true beauty is reveled only if there is a light from within. If you don’t shine form within it may because you rely on others to validate you to give you confidence, or feel appreciated. Hope often appears to give us proof of God’s presence. If your suffering is a burden, reach out and ease someone else’s. Lift them up so they can find comfort that they are not alone. Offer compassion when you need it and be a friend when you need friendship.
       Faith is defined as the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen. Faith stands for Full Assurance in the Heart. The key to moving forward in life is to let the vision be not guided by what you can see but what you can imagine. If you can imagine a better future, you can believe it. If you believe it you can achieve it. Live as though you can do anything you dream of doing. When we feel wiped down by a huge challenge, trust that anything is possible. You may feel that the whole world is line up against you. But believe that things can change, solutions will appear, and help can arrive from unexpected places. Look for the best solution and trust that every obstacle serves a purpose. Have faith that your story will unfold and it will be incredible.
       There is no perfect route to long tem happiness but if you give yourself only temporary pleasures you will only get temporary pleasures. Life isn’t about having, it’s about being. God makes no mistakes, but he does make miracles. You are one. Without a positive attitude you can never rise above and make the difference you wish to make. Ask yourself do I want to spend the rest of my life wallowing in misery or do I want to rise above what has happened and pursue my dreams? Change your negative attitude to a positive one.

1.      I will never get over this. – It will pass.

2.      I can’t take this anymore. – I got this far. Better days are ahead.

3.      This is the worst I have ever had it. – Somedays are harder than others.

4.      I’ll never find another job. – One door is closed but another will open.

Take it one day at a time and you will become more than a conqueror. Socrates said “Let him that would move the world, move himself first”. When you can’t catch a break try creating your own. Don’t let fear keep you from chasing your dreams. Treat fear like a smoke detector. Pay attention to when it goes off; look around for any real danger or just the alarm ringing. If there is no real threat put it out of your life. You can’t enjoy life if you fear what might happen one day somewhere. Many fearful people focus on what if when we should be focused on why not?

         You never know what is around the next corner. It could be the answer you’re looking for. Edison said “Every wrong attempt discarded is another step forward”. There is no shame in tripping, screwing up, or striking out. It’s only shame if you don’t use the motivation from your misses to try harder and stay in the game. God will often make you work harder for goals putting stumbling blocks in the path. He is preparing you for bigger and better days so that we will grow. Challenges are often thrown in our way and we are more prepared for then we realize. God will give us a nudge that allows us to take the giant leap.  Keep in mind that this is new. It will be strange. You will need to stay calm, not panic, and be patient. It will all work out for the best. Give yourself some slack and time to adjust. It helps prepare you for the unexpected jolts. Taking responsibility is the only way to master the conditions along the journey. You made the leap now you have to grow in the environment. The progress may be stressful but the personal growth is worth it. Growing pains are a sign that you are stretching and reaching new heights. I encourage you to embrace the change that elevates your life and be the force of change that uplifts the lives of others. One of my favorite bible verses is ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be open to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door shall be opened Matthew 7:7-8. Often times the reason why people miss opportunities is when it comes knocking they are out looking for a 4 leaf clover. Invest in your future by preparing, dedicating to your goals, and knowing when to make the leap. If you feel like you never get a shot it may be because you aren’t ready to fire. Break a sweat, get your hands dirty, and hit the books. But not every opportunity is worth it. You have to be true to yourself and think of the impact you want to make long-term. Developing lasting relationships is key to have a fruitful life. Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up Ecclesiastes 4:9. Even after you have built up a life with purpose you can’t just wait around for something to happen. Seize every thread and weave a rope to climb. Sometimes that boulder that fell in your path is actually an opening that takes you to a higher place. But you have to have the courage to make the decent. Take it one step at time, build momentum, and create the life you love. The choices you make determine the quality of the life you lead. Be thoughtful in developing high standards and strict criteria for evaluating how you invest your time and energy. Base your choices on not how you feel in the moment but on what best serves your ultimate goals.
          Every living person should try to commit to doing something ridiculous every day. Helen Keller said “There is no such thing as a secure life. It doesn’t exist in nature. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing”. Risk is the place between your comfort zone and your dream is where it takes place. It’s has high anxiety but it’s often where you discover who you are. But you should never take a risk where you lose more than you win. An ancient African proverb says that no one tests the depth of the river with both feet. Enjoy the ride, embrace the blessings, and not just to live but to enjoy life to the fullest.
            When you step outside yourself and reach out to others it will change you. Everything you can do to better someone else’s life better makes your life more meaningful.